DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: I just ran into a ghost. I was in a well-known shopping mall when I saw my wife from another life. She was walking arm-in-arm with a man I had never seen before, and for a moment, I thought I had traveled back in time. We locked eyes, and I could sense the familiarity and awkwardness emanating from both of us.
It took a few moments for me to process the situation and remind myself that I had moved on from that relationship. We divorced several years ago due to irreconcilable differences and went our separate ways. I thought I had closed that chapter of my life, but seeing her again brought back old memories and emotions.
I decided not to approach her and instead chose to let her live her life, just as I was living mine. After all, I had finally found the liberation I deserved, and I didn't want anything to jeopardize that. However, I couldn't help but wonder if she was happy with her new partner. Did she find what she was looking for after we parted ways?
As I continued with my shopping, I couldn't shake off the feeling that the encounter had left me with. Seeing my ex with someone else was a harsh reminder that we are all constantly moving forward, sometimes without realizing it. It made me question whether I would ever see her again and whether our paths were truly separate now.
Even though the encounter was unexpected and brief, it taught me a valuable lesson. It made me realize that no matter what had happened in the past, I should focus on the present and appreciate the freedom that I have now. So, I'm moving on and leaving the past where it belongs – in the past.
I wish my ex-wife all the best, and I hope she finds happiness in life. As for me, I'm content with my choices and ready to face whatever comes next.